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I unfriend you

Posted on March 4, 2015 at 1:15 AM
If faced with a decision to continue a relationship with a friend's spouse boyfriend or someone not married to your friend or best friend what would you do?

My friend who will remain nameless in this story and so will the man that I will be referring to. A 38 year old single mother of one. Daughter 18 freshman college. I've known her for 14 years. I met her at my first job at the State of Texas. I've watched her take care of her daughter, send her some of the best schools in Austin, Texas. Also, watch her daughter excel academically and become excepted into summer programs that included trips to NASA in Houston, Texas. She held her position and later transferred within the State to a better position that would allow her daughter access to higher learning facilities and a greater income.

As a mother and successful business women she also travels to be closer to her mother, younger sibling, niece, aunts and uncles who are entrepreneurs hours away from Austin, Texas. This family is filled with love and support.

She is also in a relationship with a man that she loves and cares for. He is not a bad guy, he has been there through good times and some bad times. He has shared in some household responsibilities. Not like hers. She pays rent, he pays water. She works non stop, he has gaps in employment. He does have a degree but has reservations about the field. I've listened to the stories and I know he has done things outside the relationship that hurt her' I know he is not and he will never be man enough for my friend.  She has always made everything happen without his help.

I am unfriending this man for asking my friend to add him to her bank account and  after 16 years he couldn't add her to his last name. If your her friend and you are reading this the unfriending should be done simultaneously MIND SLAP

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Reply Claire
3:24 AM on March 7, 2015 
You're possibly the most ghetto "blogger" I've ever seen. Please keep posting, this is hilarious.
Reply Maria
11:36 PM on March 14, 2015 
First time I've been called a blogger. Thank you claire
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1:44 AM on April 1, 2019 
I have to agree with your decision about unfriending this guy who you think is not a good person for your friend. Even though I don't know her personally, I was already amazed with her life and the sacrifices that she has made. And I don't think that this guy deserves your friend at all. I hope he will still change and become a better man for a person that deserves the best. Please let your friend knows about your thoughts regarding this concern that you have. She deserves to know what you think about it and her rights as a woman.